Even the thought of loosing their job can send most people into a panic, so when it actually happens all bets are off when it comes to how they actually do respond. For some the tendency is to begin the process of looking for a new job or career without skipping a beat, however for others it can lead to a long and winding road of depression, anger, and financial challenges that leave one feeling in ruins. So when two people are faced with the same situation of loosing their jobs, what will cause one to spring into action, and other to spiral into the abyss? Let's first take a look at the two in more detail.
On one end a person gets the news, processes it and immediately begins the process of finding a replacement job. They don't take the incident personally, nor do they allow it to impact them or those around them negatively. They may feel some panicky feelings, and perhaps worry a bit, however they don't allow these feelings or thoughts to paralyze them, instead they use it as a spring board and motivator to push even harder towards a positive solution to their situation. They are hot on the trail of opportunity, success and may even find themselves in a better place than where they started.
On the other end of the spectrum is the person who reacts with anger, resentment, hostility and depression. They may feel that the world is out to get them and this was just one more example to prove their point. They might also feel powerless in the situation and believe that there's nothing they can do about it. In addition, these thoughts begin to pound them into submission, drain their energy and can have a huge impact on their attitude, behaviors, thoughts and actions. In most cases these negative factors also protrude externally and begin to impact things such as relationships, job prospects, financial obligations and health. In essence, their whole world falls apart from the inside, out.
The answer lays in how we view the situation and more specifically, our thoughts around the ordeal. The person who immediately springs into action and takes charge of the situation understands that their true power lays in being on the offensive when it comes to their lives. They get the point that in order to take charge of the situation they must take full responsibility for the position that they're in and take immediate action to rectify it. This may lead them in a new career direction, towards another job in the same industry, or in some other area that they never before even considered. They key is that they take charge, believe everything will work out and know that everything happens for a reason. Their challenge now becomes finding out what opportunity they are being given through this event, and making the most of it.
So now I ask you, which person would you rather be like in this situation? Remember, the choice is yours.
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